TE: Total Score for Driving with Emotional Intelligence
Driving with emotional intelligence means having a positive profile on these driver
personality components. Drivers are assessed by Distance from a Desirable Driver Profile.
This distance may be computed as a Geometric Mean (=sum of squares of differences for each
item divided by the number of items, then square rooted). Drivers can rank order
themselves on the basis of this Distance Scorestarting with small scores as the best
(closest to Desirable Driver Profile) and large scores as the worst (further away from
Desirable Driver Profile).
The Desirable Driver Profile, or DDP, is theoretically specifiable but this may not be
enough. Further, different ethnic or cultural contexts may require different theoretical
predictions. It is necessary therefore to empirically discover what the Desirable Driver
Profile is for a specific population and context.
Prior attempts to find a relation between personality traits and accident proneness led
to the conclusion that one cannot find correlations higher than .3, which gives a
predictive power of less than 10% better than chance (50%). This result has discouraged
further research in this area. We take the position that the research community needs to
go further with it, not abandon it.
The first important change is to introduce valid driving items rather than general
clinical personality traits. This we have done in the present survey battery.
Second, we take the position that the driving items must cover the three domains of the
driver: affective, cognitive, sensorimotor. Our items are distributed across these three.
Third, we define valid items as those that authentically engage the habitual thinking
patterns of drivers and gives them a genuine problem or scenario to think about and solve.
Fourth, we define the effectiveness or predictive power of an
item as its ability to evoke known social psychological dilemmas
or issues. We have done this by writing items that create a focus
around 8 known important social psychological issues,
as indicated in the list above.
Results
AB: Attribution bias in driving exchanges
It's normal to try to figure things out when something happens: what's going on, who is
doing it, why, and so on. Typically we assess incoming information and come to a logical
conclusion. When it comes to driving, our research has revealed that drivers often ignore
telling information and come to an illogical conclusion, or an unfounded one. The
following items describe some typical driving situations that all drivers could be exposed
to. They ought to be able to agree or disagree with conclusions based on those facts.
That's what the percentages represent: how many people or what proportion of respondents
picked to agree or disagree. The blue answer is always better than the red answer. By
looking at these percentages we can find out how drivers reason about normal situations
they may encounter. Consider these items and the results.
You're driving in the left lane in heavy traffic and you're trying to switch to the
right lane so you can make a right turn at the next intersection. The driver in the car
next to you sees your signal and closes the gap, preventing you from entering the lane.
You miss your turn as a result. What do you think probably happened?
1) The driver is an idiot and wants you to miss your turn.
Yes, I agree with this 46% AB1- No, I do not agree 54% AB1
2) The driver was not being alert and closed the gap by habit, not even realizing
it.
Yes, I agree with this 50% AB2 - No, I do not agree 50% AB2
3) The driver is power hungry and enjoys denying what you want.
Yes, I agree with this 57% AB3 - No, I do not agree 43% AB3
4) The driver needs better training to avoid such errors.
Yes, I agree with this 84% AB4 - No, I do not agree 16% AB4
The vast majority of drivers agree that one is not supposed to close the gap and deny
entry to another car, and a driver who does that "needs better training to avoid such
errors" (item 4) and learn to become "more alert" or cooperative (item 2).
About half of the respondents agree with the idea that making such an error turns you into
'a power hungry idiot who enjoys offending others' (items 1 and 3). What conclusions can
we draw from this pattern?
If half of the drivers on the road think that the other half are power hungry idiots
who enjoy annoying you, then we have a serious problem on our highways. Note that a
majority of people disagree with the explanation that the driver who closes the gap does
it "by habit, not even realizing it" (item 2). And yet this is answer is more
actually more likely, as you yourself can know by observing your own driving more closely.
You will find that it's a common thing to do--unconsciously closing the gap when you
notice a car wanting to switch to your lane ahead of you. When we asked people to tell us
in their own words what they thought of other drivers and the way they drive, we received
confirmation of this cynicism. Here are some samples quotations: Listen America, your
drivers speak, think, and feel this about one another:
Drivers are macho idiots acting like idiots talking on cell phones trying to impress
girlfriends.
For the most part, people are tired of being taken advantage of, or dealing with idiots,
so they take it out while driving.
Some are just plain idiots, some don't know any better and some are selfish.
People are idiots driving slow in the passing lane or pulling out in front of me and
then going slow.
Many crashes are caused by people who can't stand not to be first and drive like a pure
idiot. Then you have two idiots, than three, then ...well you know the results. One idiots
leads to another.
Again, it's not aggressiveness that bothers me. It's the fact that people are stupid
idiots who don't' know how to drive.
For the most part, people are tired of being taken advantage of, or dealing with idiots,
so they take it out while driving.
They are plain old selfish self-centered jerks with no common sense and with an inflated
sense of importance.
They just want to get out of there as quickly as possible and just being jerks.
They're in a hurry and they know they can get away with being jerks because they can
always zoom away from you, a generally more angry and irritable attitude among people
today.
They are too busy thinking of themselves. They are most likely complete jerks in real
life, too.
I think they just want to be faster than you and they are stupid jerks who think that
they are better than you because of what they drive or who they are.
People driving too slow drive me crazy. Old people are the main people who drive like
idiots.
People are idiots and don't think before they do things..... they seem to think that
they are the only people on the road.
As a semi driver, this is the safest way to ensure blocking all available roadway in
order for the idiots behind me to not get themselves crushed under my trailer. There's
always at least one fool a week who tries to get between myself and the curb.
A man bumped and scraped my car who didn't feel bad enough about it. I was cool about it
and thought it was minor but when that jerk took off without going to the side and
checking it out, I just had to yell out my feelings.
Sometimes I try to let people pull out in front of me on a busy street. there are no
stop lights and it takes a while for traffic to open and allow them to get out.
Unfortunately, there are idiots who don't understand why I am stopping and the go around
to pass me. Usually , the idiot has to slam on his brakes to avoid hitting the car pulling
out, and he is stuck there, half in my lane, half in the other lane, blocking traffic.
You should never let other driver's bad habits change your own driving habits. That's
why I wouldn't speed up for some idiot on my rear bumper, especially if I was already
speeding, which is likely.
I'd love to drive the 75 or 85 mph that I did when I learned how to drive in the early
seventies. The problem is that there are too many fools and idiots on the road today. I
may be one of them, who knows?
I am already traveling faster than the law wants me to and now this jerk wants me to go
faster because he wants to go faster
Poor guy, he just lost his girlfriend and minding his own business, riding his bike and
then some jerk harasses him and then the police ignores his call. I would feel depress and
upset too if that happened to me.
It seemed he had a hate for speed bumps, and boy did the squad car look like a ship
tossed about in a storm. He did not appear to be going to an emergency, he seemed to just
be in a hurry and hated the bumps like everyone else, except the jerks who wanted them.
Boy, some clown was driving to work, in the right lane, taking his dear sweet time in
rush-hour, and guess what this *non-aggressive* driver was doing? Yes, as the title
implies, this jerk had full-sized headphones on and was probably listening to Strauss and
the "Blue Danube".
Today I was on the I-60 freeway (in LA) and came upon a mid 70's ford van (all crapped
out) doing 55 (this in a section of freeway clearly marked 60MPH) in the left lane (of a 4
lane PLUS carpool lane) freeway. As cars would come up behind this jerk, they would flash
their lights, tailgate and finally decide to pass on the right (not always possible, since
traffic in the other lanes was flowing faster than jerkoff).
Jerkoff responded by flashing his brights.
Jerkoff pulls back into the fast lane (cutting off a car overtaking him doing 75).
Even luckier, the idiot with the gun finally decided to pull over and confront the
couple, who were following him until police arrived.
The SUV - Sport Utility Vehicle - is our land yacht, our tank, our 5,000 pounds of armor
protecting us from road rage and pileups and that idiot hugging our bumper.
Conditions can never improve if we just keep jamming more and more stupid drivers on the
road, and then tout about the nastiness of road rage, and how driving slower will solve
everything.
It gets hairy when some idiot decides he wants to get in that left lane and do 50.
Since safety zealots like to define "speeding" in terms of the posted limit,
their idiot followers feel like they're safe if they're driving below the posted limit.
Speed doesn't kill, the idiot that doesn't know what he's doing while going that fast
does.
A heavily laden van, poorly maintained, and steered by a distracted idiot is considered
legal at 1 mph under the limit. On the other hand, a well-maintained performance car
driven by an alert, capable driver is subject to legal penalty at 1 mph over the posted
speed.
I have found since I started driving from the latter perspective that my sheet metal
doesn't end up looking like a twisted mess anymore because some idiot that I thought saw
me, didn't.
I just thank my lucky stars drive a 1976 Chevy Nova with a V8 and dual exhaust so I have
the power need just in case some idiot pulls up on my rear bumper on the freeway and
refuses to get off because s/he doesn't think that my 80 in the 70 zone is fast enough.
for them I slow down a bit, shift and leave 'em eating dust.
Truck drivers get a bad rap. Idiots in cars make the pros job hard.
Well since speeding up didn't help I slowed to the speed limit. the jerk just started
giving me his brights and swerved into the oncoming lane. My question is how do you
respond to maniacs on the road when there is nowhere to go?
Sometimes we innocently make that one move that doesn't sit well with some jerk on the
highway, a driver who takes offense at your having passed them and pulled in front of them
(even if you do so safely and, say, 50 yds ahead of them).
I'm fine. It's the Idiot in front of me.
These are just a sample from our collection of how drivers discuss each other.
According to the driver personality survey, half of the drivers see nothing wrong with
this type of cynicism, while the other half do.
More Results
Updated December 2000
The count=1008 respondents.
Male/Female=50% each
TEST YOURSELF: ARE YOU AN AUTOMOTIVE VIGILANTE?
1.1. Getting out of a tailgater's way only encourages that behavior.
Yes 42% No 58%
1.2. Bowing down to tailgaters will turn driving into a free for all
Yes 34% No 66%
1.3. You need to retaliate against aggressive drivers in order to maintain law and
order on highways
Yes 23% No 77%
1.4. It's justified to resist bad drivers by scaring them a little so they don't think
others are unaware or powerless
Yes 28% No 72%
1.5. It's important to prevent aggressive drivers from pushing you and other drivers
around, by blocking their way, or giving them a scare
Yes 29% No 71%
1.6. If you see a driver making what you think is a stupid, dangerous mistake, it's
your right and duty to teach that driver a lesson
Yes 14% No 86%
1.7. One driver said: "Im neither violent nor aggressive, but when some
selfish driver endangers my life and cares little about it, I can get pretty mad at that
person."
Yes 86% No 14%
1.8. One driver said: "Everybody has violent feelings at times, due to their
frustration and stress inside. Its inevitable that these emotions must come out
while you drive. Its just human nature."
Yes 40% No 60%
1.9. One driver said: "When another driver acts selfishly and puts my life in
danger, I feel better when I get angry than when I just sit there taking it
passively."
Yes 45% No 55%
1.10. Drivers who weave between lanes and know how to get somewhere fast, may be called
aggressive drivers, but they are not the cause of accidents. Accidents are caused by
unskilled drivers who make mistakes and don't know how to dodge oncoming cars.
Yes 23% No 77%
1.11. One driver said: "The situation on the road is so competitive and
aggressive, that sometimes I think of some bad things I can do to some of the idiot
drivers that endanger everybody's lives by being too aggressive. Of course I don't do
anything about it. It's just a harmless little fantasy."
Yes 46% No 54%
1.12. One driver said: "Some drivers are so foolish and selfish that they need to
be taught a lesson by vigilante drivers who look out for the public good by punishing
these selfish drivers. After all, we must not let them get away with that kind of stupid
driving. We should all be thankful to these vigilante drivers."
Yes 18% No 82%
1.13. There are too many road regulations and speed limits. Driving should be left to
drivers to battle it out with each other, and let the best win, and the worst lose.
Yes 12% No 88%
1.14. What are some things that really get you angry when other drivers do them, so
angry that you think you should let them know how you feel.
Tailgating me.
Yes 52% No 48%
1.15. What are some things that really get you angry when other drivers do them, so
angry that you think you should let them know how you feel.
Cutting in front me, then slowing down.
Yes 65% No 35%
1.16. What are some things that really get you angry when other drivers do them, so
angry that you think you should let them know how you feel.
Dangerously weaving through traffic.
Yes 36% No 64%
1.17. What are some things that really get you angry when other drivers do them, so
angry that you think you should let them know how you feel.
Deliberately not making space for me when they see I need it.
Yes 56% No 44%
1.18. What are some things that really get you angry when other drivers do them, so
angry that you think you should let them know how you feel. Taking away my parking space
even though I saw it first.
Yes 39% No 61%
1.19. What are some things that really get you angry when other drivers do them, so
angry that you think you should let them know how you feel.
Going too slow for no reason and blocking my way so I cant pass. YesNo
Yes 60% No 40%
1.20. Aggressive driving cannot be cured. Its part of human nature in a
competitive and dangerous situation. We need teach drivers how to be aggressive and safe
at the same time."
Yes 37% No 63%
1.21. Driver A tailgates driver B in the passing lane. Driver B notices it but takes a
long time to switch over to the right lane. Driver A gets angry and in order to retaliate,
he cuts into the right lane just ahead of driver B. Driver B has to slam on the brakes.
Driver A was justified in tailgating driver B because driver B was blocking the passing
lane and taking too long to switch over to the right lane.
Yes 21% No 79%
1.22. Driver A tailgates driver B in the passing lane. Driver B notices it but takes a
long time to switch over to the right lane. Driver A gets angry and in order to retaliate,
he cuts into the right lane just ahead of driver B. Driver B has to slam on the brakes.
Driver A was justified in expressing his anger when driver B was blocking his way in
the passing lane.
Yes 28% No 82%
1.23. Driver A tailgates driver B in the passing lane. Driver B notices it but takes a
long time to switch over to the right lane. Driver A gets angry and in order to retaliate,
he cuts into the right lane just ahead of driver B. Driver B has to slam on the brakes.
Driver A was justified in cutting off driver B to let him know that he should not block
the passing lane.
Yes 17% No 83%
1.24. One driver said: "When another driver directly insults me in front of
others, by yelling at me and making an obscene gesture, I feel deeply violated."
Yes 51% No 49%
1.25. One driver said: "I'm always trying to be courteous except when the other
drivers are not courteous to me."
Yes 62% No 38%
1.26. I would use tailgating only as a last resort, when a stubborn or selfish driver
simply refuses to let me pass when Im in a hurry and cant afford to lose more
time.
Yes 41% No 59%
Letters
The following selection of letters gives you a fuller context of how drivers talk about
one another. Are you one of them? Perhaps we all need to become more aware of our
oppositional mental state behind the wheel. One nice surprise is that even though it feels
like a hardship to give up one's automotive cynicism, this sense of hardship is only an
appearance. It feels like you're giving up something by not retaliating. There is a
certain social pressure to express your righteous indignation to make sure they're not
taking advantage of you, or even worse, they don't make you look like a wimp. But these
are symbolic events. You don't actually become a wimp and a loser when you choose not to
retaliate.
Neither is it the case that you're putting yourself in greater danger by
allowing this other driver to get away with it. The fact is that you have no control over
the mental states of other drivers. Using an oppositional or confrontational approach
actually reduces your influence over the situation since you don't know how the other
driver is going to respond. You're actually giving up control when you retaliate. In the
letters that follow, the writers call the other drivers jerks, idiots, numbskulls, morons,
boneheads, and so on. Why do they call them names? Because it's the first step to
retaliation.
Date: Mon, 1 May 2000
To: DrDriving@DrDriving.org
Subject: Your misunderstanding of the issues and premises never cease to amaze me...
These
aggressive laws are about jobs and dollars.. nothing more. I'll comment on each question:
1. Each time you go through a red light (engaging the intersection when already red)
A significant number (majority) of traffic light are not timed in accordance with MUTCD
guidelines or on the basis of engineering that have determined the prevailing speed of
traffic being regulated.
a) Many times resulting in short yellows and irregular timing sequences. (equivalent of
speed traps)
b) Many red light camera are placed at intersections with low accident rates, but high
volumes and/or other traffic sites with design flaws where the cameras record significant
violations yet have no effect on accident rates. The cities profit from there in action.
c) AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, the latest AAA study out of Minnesota and a like one out of
England shows that doing an engineering review of an intersection and bringing the devices
up to standards and specifications (MUTCD) (timing) resulted in accident reductions of up
to 50%.
d) Excerpts of another report
"So far I have measured 13 intersections. I take at least 20 readings of amber
time at each signal. I measure the clearance distance also. Where appropriate I measure
the uphill or downhill grade as the case requires. All the data is then statistically
analyzed and calculations specific to the intersection are made.
Out of the 13 intersections I have measured and analyzed so far, five (or 38.5%) failed
to provide the minimum amber needed to make a so called safe stop. All 13 (or 100%) failed
to provide the minimum amber time required for a vehicle to make safe passage and
clearance of the intersection, which happens to be a CODE OF VIRGINIA requirement. "
2. Each time you go through an amber light (visibly speeding up to make it, not just
getting caught in it)
See above
3. Each time you switch a lane without signaling first
These citations are always grouped with speeding as a primary component of aggressive
drive laws. Before you jump on this band wagon go look at the actual data. Here in Nevada,
even with urban cities like Las Vegas and Reno, out of 70,000 accidents last year there
were only 5 were caused by changing lanes without signaling in total, with another 8 as
contributing cause. ZERO on the interstate/open highway with free flowing traffic, yet it
was the most popular secondary citation written here by the NHP on these classifications
of highways.
4. Each time you make a turn without signaling
See above - Yes you should signal when making a turn, but it is not an aggressive
driving type of offenses. Normal citation should suffice.
5-10. Each time you go over the speed limit by more than 1 mil
See the study I conducted in Montana. Speed enforcement, as practiced, has not shown to
have any effect on vehicle speeds or accident rates. Most enforcement occurs when traffic
is light, lowest accident frequency sections of highway, during the times of day when
accidents are least likely to occur, targeting the safest vehicles in the bell curve on
roads that have the limits set well bellow the finding of the engineering recommendations.
The charts speak for themselves without my commentary. The changes or fluctuations in
the fatality rate had nothing to do speed limit changes. However, it is interesting to
note they recorded there lowest rates ever when there were no limits whatsoever.
http://nj.npri.org/nj99/03/fedagency.htm <---- this is a sad truth
http://nj.npri.org/nj99/04/rule.htm <---- this is a parody
11-14. This type of behavior is unacceptable at all times. Interesting to note that the
Governor of MN vetoed a "slower traffic keep" right bill primarily at the
request of the state patrol - what's up with that. Here in Nevada I wrote a bill that was
signed into law that says you even if you are exceeding limit , yet impeding traffic, you
can be cited.
15. Each time you drive without a valid driver license.
The number one cause of lose of license is not having the money to pay for traffic
fine. Primary Victims.. those that don't have money and work from pay check to pay check.
16. Each time you drive with an alcohol level above the legal limit
AGGRESSIVE DRIVING??? There are sufficient laws on the books for this one.
17. Each time you drive while drowsy enough to have droopy eyes
In bridge (transit) states like Nevada the Fed highway monies are not enough to repair
and replace the highways, and there is no funding available to operate rest stops. Well in
excess of 70% the open highway accidents are single vehicle events. Yet rest areas are
virtually non-existent. NONE on the high accident 15 corridor between Vegas and the
California line... and Casinos do not qualify as rest areas.
18-19. Each time you drive and use a hand held cellular phone when not in an emergency
situation
Despite all the hype, accidents caused by technology are low and the benefits from cell
phones has been enormous. when accidents do occur, before the vehicles come to a stopp the
911 centers receive multiple calls and live reports on the severity and nature of the
event.
Furthermore, the idiotic recommendation to pull over to shoulder and stop to talk is
the most dangerous act a motorists can perform. The act of leaving and entering the stream
and dramatic speed differentials creates an extreme hazard and is never a good idea unless
you leave the roadway at an off ramp.
Technology is here and there is no turning it back... This week the President lifted
the military scrambling of the GPS signals to enhance transportation electronic device
applications and navigation. As with driving, flying or any other endeavor we will as
species adapt.
And our survival and lower accident rates says we aren't doing to bad a job
20. Each time you drive in a car whose windows are dark tinted enough so other drivers
cannot see you
What does this have to do with aggressive driving???
21. Each time you drive and other drivers can hear your radio or music blasting loud
enough that it can be clearly heard in an adjacent car whose windows are up
What does this have to do with aggressive driving???
22. Each time you unmistakably rev your engine in order to intimidate someone or to show
them your displeasure
Rare occurrence.. and if vehicles are stopped what does this have to do with aggressive
driving???
23. Each time you get to a traffic light and stop too close behind another car (you cannot
see the other car's tires)
What does this have to do with aggressive driving???
24. Each time you approach too fast another car that's stopped, fast enough that the other
driver feels threatened
Way too Subjective
25. Each time you follow too close and keep it up for more than one minute (even when
you're travelling in a pack)
6,000 cars an hour traveling at speeds up to and excess of 80 mph are daily routine on
most urban interstates... at less than 1 second intervals.. What does this have to do with
aggressive driving??? I have the actual Caltrans reports if you would like to see them.
26. Each time you're cruising in the passing lane, refusing to move over as soon as you
can
Already against the law in most states... virtually never enforced.
27. Each time you're waiting in traffic and blocking an exit or intersection, when you
could have stopped sooner
Already against the law in most states... virtually never enforced.
28. Each time you can be seen making an obscene gesture at another road user
Freedom of speech... seems to come to mind even if offensive.
29. Each time you can be heard hurling an insult to another road user
Freedom of speech... seems to come to mind even if offensive.
30. Each time you don't make a full stop at a stop sign
Most stop signs have been placed contrary to the MUTCD (no supporting justification)
many could be replaced with yield signs or removed all together. When rational motorists
determine that there is no safety hazard... they will proceed with caution without coming
to a complete stop. This is why the yield signs in are recommended instead of stop signs.
Save the stop signs for true hazards.
There are many many areas where accident rates could be reduced, the solutions are not
to found in aggressive driving laws, particularly as they are being enforced. Worse yet,
NHTSA has been holding back studies and field reports from publication that are contrary
to their stated objectives... anyone one can claim success when they withhold piublication
of the projects that failed, alter data and quote out of context.
From EA@Bell.com Wed Mar 4 19:19:01 1998
Date: Wed, 4 Mar 1998 16:36:46 -1000
To: "'leon@hawaii.edu'" <leon@hawaii.edu>
Subject: Road Rage
DrDriving:
I must say that I do agree with much of what I see here. It is a little difficult,
however, to fathom much of this being of assistance in a town such as Austin. This is one
of the worst towns in the country to be a driver in. If if weren't for idiot rubbernecks
and morons who do not know how to enter and exit from freeways here, we wouldn't have as
many problems.
I am by no means a perfect driver, but I do try to be as courteous as
possible to others around me. It really chaps me that some people will hold up traffic to
gawk and peer at the misfortune of others. These are the people who should be dragged out
of their cars and choked on the spot. Well, a little tension release can't hurt now,
especially if we can make public examples of boneheads such as these.
Date: Sun, 20 Oct 1996 07:06:10 -1000
From: "Dr. Edward Jakobovits, Ph.D.
eddyjake@sciweb.com www.sciweb.com
Reminds me of a little skit by George Carlin, the comedian:
Ever notice when you're
driving down the road how everyone is driving at the wrong speed -- everyone driving
slower than you is an Idiot, and everyone driving faster than you is a Maniac.
I always felt this was a good description of the situation.
Date: Sun, 27 Sep 1998 20:39:39 -1000
From: JK@aol.com
To: DrDriving@DrDriving.org
Subject: My Husband's Road Rage
DrDriving,
Earlier this evening, we were driving home on the highway and a pickup truck sped up
behind us to pass us from the right while the right lane was merging into ours, and cut us
off after "his" lane was already gone. My husband refused to let him in, keeping
at the same speed as him. Then he flashed his brights at the pickup as he got in front of
us. Although I agreed with my husband that the other guy was being rude and dangerous, I
was upset that my husband continued the aggressive driving pattern.
He doesn't think he was doing anything wrong, just "showing him that he was being
a jerk." I said, fine, if you want to do that while you're in the car alone, but not
with the rest of the family. We had a 5-year-old and an infant in the back seat. We got
into a huge argument over this. I said he didn't know whether flashing his brights at the
guy would cause the guy to become angry and start a "road war." My husband said
I was being paranoid and he wasn't going to be scared to show his opinion to others just
because it might make someone mad. I think, that as a father, he needed to keep the safety
of his wife and children in mind, as well as others on the road, and just let the other
guy be a jerk. Am I wrong?.
From jc@vcn.com Tue May 5 16:06:17 1998
Date: Tue, 5 May 1998 15:15:34 -1000
From: jc@vcn.com
To: dyc@DrDriving.org
Subject: Your site
DrDriving:
Read through your site; found it quite interesting. I am very much in agreement with you
when you state this is culturally related. I, like most other people, have been guilty of
behaving like a jerk on the road. Luckily I survived and have mostly grown up--plus moved
to a very low density state where cows outnumber cars. Prior to retiring I made a daily
commute in rat race mode, and things were getting spooky. I still have memories of a
semitruck's bumper about ten feet behind my VW Rabbit with my two kids in the back seat. I
never could figure out what would make someone do that... Keep up the work--even if it
does mean cultural overhaul. We need it anyway.
ggressive Drivers
From c@msv.com Fri May 29 17:44:45 1998
Date: Fri, 29 May 1998 14:11:42 -1000
From: c@msv.com
To: leon@hawaii.edu
Subject: Re: Aggressive Drivers
Dear Dr. Driving:
One of the things I have noticed is that often times drivers feel they are making progress
by lunging the car around. Instead of easing on power and steadily increasing speed (even
if they exceed the speed limit). They surge from brake to gas. This jerking around seems
to give then a feeling of accomplishment. Kind of like when someone who has only fired a
water pistol tries to fire a real gun. They instinctively jerk the trigger as if that will
help the bullet travel any faster. Because that's what it looks like on TV.
teaching kids road rage
From: d@tp.net Mon Jun 8 11:10:54 1998
Date: Mon, 8 Jun 1998 03:26:59 -1000
To: Leon James <leon@hawaii.edu>
Subject: Re: teaching kids road rage
Dr. Driving,
Thanks for your reply. I like your comments about teaching kids when they are
youngsters. I started thinking about my driving habits and how I call people
"jerks" and I would never do that at home.
Thanks!
Road Rage
From d@sympatico.ca Mon Jun 8 14:00:27 1998
Date: Mon, 8 Jun 1998 12:44:39 -1000
From: d@syrco.ca
To: dyc@DrDriving.org
Subject: Road Rage
DrDriving:
An interesting and worthwhile subject of study. I find myself, normally calm, cool and
collected, being rocketed into roadrage by specific things. After examining the pattern, I
found that I got most angry when other drivers committed rude, minor traffic violations
WITH IMPUNITY. Such as: pulling onto a highway from a sideroad, causing an entire line of
traffic to slow down to halfspeed while the idiot gets going; such as speeding up the
right hand lane and forcing their way into traffic when the lane ends, rather than line up
like the rest of us.
It is not the fact that the idiots do these things, it's the fact that NOTHING IS DONE
about it. Here in London, there is now an Accident Reporting Center, where one takes one
car if it has been involved in an accident. Police are only called for damage over $700 or
if there are injuries. If neither exists, police are not called, and both parties report
to the center to have the damages assessed and reported for our no-fault insurance
program. Doesn't matter if the other guy blew a stop sign and t-boned your car, police are
not called, no tickets are given, and no-fault pays for everything. The laws of the land
are not being enforced, and those who do make a policy of obeying the law are put in the
position of being fools for doing so. Meanwhile the idiot lawbreakers go merrily on their
way, oblivious to their stupidity and carelessness. And the rest of us fume......
Well I have got to put in my two cents worth. I am 45 and feel that I have had ample
driving experience with numerous muscle cars and sports cars. Not perfect, do make a
mistake now and then, but pretty damn capable. Yes, I am aggressive if that means that I
drive a little faster than posted and get irritated over idiots.
There is nothing more
irritating than people who are totally inconsiderate. Like the idiot that is merging onto
a highway and expects you to move and let him on. Why should I have to adjust for him?
Or the numbnuts that sit through a light. And of course the fool in the left lane going
below the speed limit when there is plenty of room in one of the other lanes. Oh WAIT, the
one who changes lanes right in front of you or cuts in front of you and then slows
down!!!! In my city of Arlington, TX the city council has decided that people like myself
who exhibit aggressive driving and road rage are the problem and are taking action against
us. Typical liberal thinking, "the poor idiot drivers can't help themselves so we the
government must".
Unfortunately the real reason is that there are so many more stupid, inconsiderate, and
inattentive people on the road than there are of us that it is easier to attack and
penalize the competent. (again liberalism). Thanks for letting me take up your bandwidth
and vent.
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Which received this answer on the discussion
list:
Well Greg, I can sympathize with ya. But one thing is for certain, there will always be
more "numbnuts" out there driving than "non-numbnuts" like you and me
(the population is growing exponentially), so for your blood pressures sake, get used to
it. And since I'm approaching your age I too have a bit of driving experience. I've
noticed that when I get pissed at another driver's actions and I let it get to me, I start
driving like a jerk, and then I just piss off other drivers, on and on it goes until we
all pull off the road and forget what hell even happened to get so pissed... We all have
little to no control over what other people do, the only control we have is for our own
emotions and actions. The nice thing about having a muscle car is that if I feel like
cruising slow, I will, and the hustle and bustle can just go on by. But if someone
tailgates me, acts weird, or whatever I just drop the hammer, boom!, I'm outa there. 999
times out of a 1000 they can't keep up with me.
Interpretation
The letters above reveal the pattern of thinking of drivers about each other. About half of the
population thinks with a negative or oppositional attribution bias, which means that they
choose a personally derogatory explanation of another driver's actions when these actions
are perceived as threatening. Let's look at the differences between these two types of
mental states: one negative and oppositional, the other positive and cooperative. The
negative oppositional mode of thinking and emoting is the normal (culturally sanctioned)
starting point for a driver's career.
DRIVING WITH EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
Symptoms
of Oppositional Driving
Emotionally
Intelligent Remedies
1
Obsessing about slow traffic
"At
this rate well never get there" , "I feel like Im going
backwards" , "Now Im stuck behind this slow driver" etc.
Leave earlier; Give up
getting there on time; Distract yourself with radio or music; Admire the scenery; Practice
yoga breathing
2
Feeling combative with self-righteous indignation
"This
jerk just cut me offgotta give him a piece of my mind" , "I dont
deserve to be pushed around" , "Nobody gives me the finger and gets away with
it" "Nobody should fool with me and get away with it"; etc.
Make funny animal
sounds; Make up some possible excuses for that driver; Think about your parents and
children who might do the same thing; Think about being a saint
3
Feeling excessively competitive
"Darn,
that guy made the light and I didnt" , "How come that lane is faster than
this one" , "Those pedestrians better watch outIm coming
through" , etc.
Tell yourself its
just a habit from childhood to feel anxious about not winning, or being left behind;
Remind yourself it feels good to be civil and helpful
4
Being over-critical
"Look
at that idiot who forgets to turn off his signal" , "I cant stand it the
way he slows down and speeds up, slows down and speeds up" , "How can he pay
attention to the road if hes babbling on the phone"
Tell yourself its
human to make mistakes; Recall to yourself your own mistakes; Remind yourself that
patience is a virtue; Try to maneuver your car away from that car
5
Love of risk taking
"I like
to go fast, but Im careful" , "I can make this light if I speed up" ,
"I can squeeze into that opening if I time it right" , "I can insult that
driver cause I can get away fast" , etc.
Think of your loved ones
and how they would feel if something happened to you; Tell yourself you prefer to be a
mature and prudent person.
Read down the Symptoms column and try to identify the attribution bias. For example in
behavior area 4, Being Over-critical, a person might say or think:, Look at that idiot who
forgets to turn off his signal. This is not an objective statement. It has two parts. He
forgot to turn off the signal, is objective. He is an idiot, is subjective. It is not an
explanation but a put down. Its purpose is to insult or punish as a way of retaliation.
Similarly with the other statements. Go over each and try to isolate the objective part
and the subjective part.
Consider the examples in behavior area 2, Righteous Indignation. Why does a person say,
Nobody gives me the finger and gets away with it. The individual feels insulted and wants
to retaliate. The justification for the planned punishment is that you need to protect
your self-worth which was attacked when the other driver insulted you. This way of
thinking is symbolic and subjective, not real or actual. If you ignore the insult, it
doesn't mean the other is getting away with it. It only means that you choose to not to
respond in kind.
Now let's look at some other symptoms of confrontational thinking behind the wheel.
Here are the results for remaining three items for attribution bias:
5) One driver said: "If a
driver behind me blows his horn and there is no one else around, its obvious
hes blowing his horn at me. Why else would he be honking?"
Yes, I agree with this 48% AB5
No, I do not agree 52%
AB5
6) One driver said: "A lot of drivers can see that
Im in a hurry. So what do they do? They intentionally try to slow me down or block
my way. Thats how they get their kicks."
Yes, I agree with this
22% AB6 No, I do not agree 78% AB6
7) If two drivers start yelling at each other, then one of
them gets out of the car and starts a fist fight with other, the driver who got out of the
car and started the fist fight is solely responsible. The driver who just yelled and
didnt want to get into a fight, is not responsible.
Yes, I agree with this
17% AB7 No, I do not agree 83% AB5
Let's look at number 7. It's evident that the vast majority of drivers can figure out
that if you get into a fight you share the blame no matter who started it, as long as it's
clear that you had a choice to stay out of it. People understand that if you yell at
someone, a fight can start. So it doesn't matter if later you claim you didn't mean to
start a fight. Note that 17% still don't understand this--that's 1 in every 6 drivers!
They need more training in how to think appropriately about driving situations.
Item 6 is a kind of paranoia to which drivers are vulnerable since driving situations
are often unclear. It's possible that a driver might intentionally slow you down and get a
kick out of it, but the fact that we think this way every time, or most of the time, is a
sure indicator that it is paranoia, not reality. Ask yourself whether you get your kicks
by intentionally slowing others down. It's always the other driver who tries to do you in.
That's not reality. But I assuming that mental state, it becomes a false reality, that is,
a delusion.
Item 5 splits the population down the middle. The logic of the situation is that you
don't really know why a driver does something. Keep track of how many times you think a
driver is going to do one thing, then does another. It happens often. So the fact is,
we're not very good at explaining why a driver has honked (maybe the hand slipped, maybe
they saw someone and are trying to catch their attention, maybe they're fooling around
with each other inside the car, maybe the horn has a short, etc.).
DRIVING WITH EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE EXPLAINED
Type of Driver Intelligence
Accurate Focus
on the Other Driver
Area of Driver Competence
Personality Context
AFFECTIVE
INTELLIGENCE
Caring about the...
motivations
intentions
emotions
reactions
feelings
attitudes
values
of other drivers
AUTOMOTIVE SYMPATHY
character
morality
conscience
COGNITIVE
INTELLIGENCE
Understanding the...
needs
suffering
fears
rights
convenience
self-worth
of other drivers
AUTOMOTIVE EMPATHY
social intelligence
education
SENSORIMOTOR
INTELLIGENCE>
Acting with...
respect
civility
alertness
compassion
coordination
caution
tolerance
toward other drivers>
AUTOMOTIVE EXCELLENCE
safety
low risk
happiness
community
The above Table shows that drivers have three intelligences. First, affective
intelligence is the ability to care about the feelings of other drivers and it is called
automotive sympathy. It is grounded in one's morality and conscience. Second,
cognitive intelligence is the ability to understand the rights and needs of other drivers
and is called automotive empathy. Third, sensorimotor intelligence is the ability
to act with civility, alertness, and caution towards other drivers and is called
automotive excellence. It is grounded in one's sense of safety, happiness and community.
It is important to realize that affective intelligence dominates the other two. When we
place ourselves in the mental state called automotive sympathy, we not only care about the
feelings of other drivers, but we also understand them better. Affective intelligence,
which is the ability to make yourself care, produces the cognitive intelligence called
automotive empathy. This is the ability to understand the intentions and feelings of the
other drivers. The reverse is also true. Choose to remain in an uncaring mental attitude,
such as being cynical and thinking of other drivers as jerks, idiots, and morons, and you
will deprive yourself of automotive empathy: the ability to understand the emotions and
reactions of other drivers. So the two must go together, like a marriage.
Finally, when the automotive marriage of sympathy and empathy is consummated in the
driver's mind, the consequences for the way we drive are truly remarkable. The result is
driving with sensorimotor intelligence, which is automotive excellence: driving with
safety, happiness, and community feelings. Choose to remain with a lack of caring for
other drivers, and you will become vulnerable to all sorts of illusions and delusions
about the other driver's intentions, needs, and rights. They will have little rights in
your mind and their convenience and safety will take the backseat to your intentions,
needs, and rights. The consequences to your driving will be a lack of automotive
excellence. This is called aggressive driving and road rage.
So aggressive driving is a consequence of low sensorimotor intelligence (not being
alert, taking dangerous risks, and ignoring civility). These bad driving behaviors are the
result of false thinking: e.g., attribution bias ( as discussed above), and other
delusions about what other drivers are doing (e.g., "cutting me off" instead of
"needing to enter my lane"). Finally, these faulty thinking patterns are created
to satisfy our automotive cynicism. In other words, if we're willing to enjoy calling a
driver jerk and moron, we're conditioning ourselves to faulty thinking about those
drivers. The result is aggressive driving. We have a moral choice to make. It starts with
automotive sympathy, which is to make ourselves care about the other driver's convenience
and feelings. That brings understanding and correct thinking about the driver's intentions
and reactions. The two together bring about automotive excellence.
Driving psychology gives us the knowledge by which we can manage our driver personality
as the task of driving is becoming increasingly complex making multiple demands on
us--legal, economic, social, behavioral, and moral.